Beau Wann, Jr.
Hello mine Waltripians, yeaaaaa Jackie is back. I typed in a long dissertation yesterday, and VOILA it disappeared. Lost my connection. Oh well, wasnt all that important, just my ramblins.
Went to my 4th funeral in less than 2 months. That sure is a drain on the emotions
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The young man that died, was a singer/songwriter, and my sons stepbrother. They were all kinda close, so they are pretty shook up. David was an absolute hilarious and gregarious character. Some of his adventures, or misadventures, make mine look like I was asleep.
There was only one song at the services, and it was one he wrote, sung in person by his son David Jr. accompianied by one of Davids band members on the Guitar and Harp. David wrote the song in highschool some 35 or more years ago. One of his friends in highschool was killed in a wreck while they were in highschool. David and his friend Mark closed themselves off in their room, and penned words and music in 30 minutes.
What a fitting legacy for David. The name of the song, is "Will you remember me"...his son sang it flawlessly. WOW...it is as good as anything on the charts now, and or anytime. In fact, I have the words and chords in a book of songs that David put together for me some 25 years ago.
David and his band "Off the couch" played all around Houston, mostly at a club called Jumps on Synott road off Westheimer. He opened for Shake Russell and Ryders in the Sky at Rockafellers on Washington Ave and Heights blvd. For those that cant picture it, it is the old Heights State Bank.
David was also friends with Clint Black before Clint made it big. Got a picture of David and Clint siting on the couch the day Clint signed his first Album contract. I think Clint has 3 or 4 brothers. One, Kevin, was at the services. Both my sons got to pal around with the Black Family through David. How cool that was for them.
There were two speakers at the funeral, not counting a minister. One was Davids long time best friend Mark, that spoke for 30 plus minutes and had people rolling in the aisle with some of Davids antics. Then David Jr spoke for about 30 plus minutes on more of his dads antics. You want some crying at a funeral. this is the best way to do it, make em laugh till they cry.
Cant remember the last time I laughed that hard with what I call, "funny tears" rolling down my face. Oh man, now thats the way to have a service. No sad tired old hymns, just laughter.
I didnt actually hear all the stories, ears just werent responding, but I heard enough, and watching the "mourners" laugh and shake and scream with joy, was plenty enough.
The church was SRO, and not much of that left.
He was only 53, and the hard life of an entertainer finally caught up with him. But, what a legacy he left for his family and friends and that was any and everyone he met. Everyone that knew him was rich for having known him...those that never met him, somewhat poorer...
Got me to thinking about mine own mortality. I have told my beloved that I wanted the song "Katmandu" played at my services. No sad tired old hymns. Thats not me. "Katmandu" is me.
Not Xanadu, but Katmandu...you know, it was a long time after Olivia Newton John came on the scene, that I found out she wasnt 3 people...like Peter Paul and Mary. Well, we are talking about me now...I am somewhat slow sometimes...
Bout the onliest (east texas for only) slow song I want would be "Stranger on the Shore" by Mr Acker Bilk...that is about the onliest moldy oldy that I do not have. Cant seem to locate one either.
Just about got the downstairs completed. All we lack is finishing up...duh!!!!!
Got doors now on the "critter free zone", and fixin to hang my big screen tv on the wall. It is so cool cause we can see it from the kitchen. In fact, on a clear day, I'll bet they could see it on the space station. I wasnt gonna get one, but relented so the game room would be complete.
Well, guess I better sing off for now. My son Billy is coming over to help me hang the big TV.
So, Rich the LH, have fun...and everyone else also too have fun...and above all, be careful
Your frien and brother...Beaucephus...DOD...
Post Script: Great to see so many folks on the forum...
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