Beau Wann, Jr.
It's me again....Got a more than serious problem to discuss with everyone, my grandaughter Haley! She is 17 and a junior at Cinco Ranch HS. She has been plagued of late with excruciating MIGRAINES...She has also become allergic to things like water. When it touches her skin, she breaks out in hives. The hives just started this year I think. But out of everything they tested her for, about 30 or 40 things, she is allergic to all of them. However, the migraines are the worst.
She has had catscans, MRIs, xrays, etc, and they can find no apparent cause for the migraines. She gets them at school, at home, at work etc, and when she does they are debilitating, as you might imagine, and I'm sure probably some of you have had a migraine or two, or been plagued with them for years. I have had a few migraines, and if her's hurt half as bad as mine did, that poor child is in terrible agony.
She and her parents have not said, but I imagine her school work and GPA has suffered. She has missed so much school. She is an A student! She spends much of her days just crying. Her dad, our son, says she is terribly depressed over this, and rightly so. We have tried conveying what we have heard that works sometimes, even if just temporarily, mostly ice on pained areas. Our doc has pointed that out to us, and for me it works most of the time, that and Tylenol ! They say they will try anything!
I dont think she is, perish the thought, suicidal, because she has always been a happy and contented child, however the kind of pain she is experiencing might just be the catalyst to drive one over the edge. I know, and you know it is not the answer, but sometimes the sweet thought of being painless can be irresistable, hence drug abusers, alcohol abuse and overdosers.
If you know of any kind of remedy, or just anything that might ease the pain, please let us know. In the meantime, if yall would just pray for her pain to be eased it would be appreciated beyond words. We have all prayed for a remedy, and I have tried to get God to see reason and just give me her pain. I have plenty and am used to it, so what's a little more eh !
As parents and grandparents, I know without exception we would do anything to help our children and grandchildren! We are not failures when we cant find a cure, or help our babies out, but I feel like one for sure. Just my protective instincts rearing their protective head.
Thank you one and all for all you have done for us and for each other. Maybe collectively we can help one more child in their quest to just be normal....
One of my all time favorite poems is by Ella Wheeler Wilcox called Ad Finem...the last two lines...
"...But, there is no fear, and hell hath no terror,
to change or alter a love like mine"
I'm sure this is the love we feel for our friends and family, especially a child or grandchild...thank you again for any consideration of prayer and or remedy, even if only temporary relief is obtained....may God bless this child as he has certainly blessed me...
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